Source (danielscranton)
CONDITIONAL & UNCONDITIONAL LOVE ∞THE 9D ARCTURIAN COUNCIL, CHANNELED BY DANIEL SCRANTON
“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
We have begun to understand humanity’s fascination with being seen and heard. You all want the best parts of yourselves to be presented to the world. You want to be seen for the person that you know you can be when you are at your best, and you want to express the things that you know will get you the most approval. This cycle of conditional love and approval gets started at a very young age.
Your parents were most likely stressed out, short on time and money, and if they could just get you to do what they thought they needed you to do, then they get to where they needed to go or get to sleep. So they would reward you for what they deemed to be good behavior and punish you for what they deemed to be bad behavior.
Many of you were sold the same story about getting Christmas presents or going to Heaven, and certainly you were punished as well at school for doing what came very natural to you at school. If you laughed, or spoke up, or if you ran around when you weren’t supposed to, you would get detention or even worse.