I have to share a secret with you, I don’t really like change. In fact, I am very much a creature of habit. I love order and routine, so when I have to make changes, I generally take my time and then make them when I don’t have any other options.
This means that change happens rather abruptly and sometimes in ways I can’t manage, meaning I can’t delay it any longer. Our need for change arises when we have ‘run out of energy road’ in our current reality and if we’re going to move in any direction, we’re going to have to allow change to happen.
We can’t be open to transformation (which means to ‘change form’) if we aren’t willing to change anything in our life, especially when moving forward or fulfilling an intention requires some kind of change, or for something in our life to be different.
Change means altering our lives, creating a new routine, and doing things differently. We always have to learn something new when things change, and that can be one reason we delay the change for so long. In fact, we’ll delay it until no other option is available and then we have to scramble to change something.
But even though we’re content with the way things are, we are not necessarily happy or satisfied or fulfilled. We learn to adjust to and cope with things that don’t work and tell ourselves that they’re OK, until we can’t cope any longer.

One of my children had wrecked it a few years prior and the right headlamp kept falling out. So I carried duct tape in the car and would apply it as needed. The ignition switch wouldn’t always work but I knew how to jiggle the key to start it.
The gas gauge wasn’t always reliable so I made sure I filled it as soon as it went down to a half tank. I don’t like buying new cars and usually drive mine until they stop working. In this case, I really needed to get another car but I wasn’t going to until the universe gave me a little push. Totaling the car was the push I needed because I had no other choice, my car was now dead.