In the past few years it has been my mission to bring rh negative people together. More than anything, I have had to get myself together. That is … in terms of adjusting to no longer feeling out of place, but rather found and safe. But this is something that required a little bit adjustment.
1) We are so used to adjusting to feeling out of place, that it is hard to let go and just be
2) We have to learn that other rh negatives are as sensitive as we are
Growing up in an insensitive world, we are often used to shielding ourselves and not having to worry too much about coming off cold, as that is a part of what makes the world the world. But when getting close to people it is important to allow their essence to dictate the interaction alongside our own energy.
In those terms, we can often be surprised that what we use as common communication tools sets a sour note.
Being honest to ourselves is a must and accepting that the people we are coming in contact with are getting us without the need to explain ourselves or putting up a self-protective persona can be quite challenging.
Which is why my general advice goes as follows:
Do unto others as you would have done to yourself is not always the best advice in a world where dogs eat dogs.
But when in a community of rh negative people, this strategy can go long ways.
And one more things: When emotionally hurt, rh negative people, though feeling it strongly, won´t always tell you straight up as we are used to disappointments. But just because something isn´t said doesn´t mean it isn´t there.
So let go, be yourself and take your time to get to know the real person. And allow them to get to know you.
And don´t be too afraid to say the wrong thing. We all make mistakes. So let´s make them together and grow as a whole knowing that whenever we are in need of healing, we have each others to come back to and help one another shine through as our true selves.
3) Rh negative people can change their attitudes quickly depending on their surroundings
One of the things we all need to be stronger at is stand our own ground. As we need to make it in this world, we also cannot bend over too much to where our true self is no longer recognizable. It is never good to change. It is ok to protect oneself and keep a lot of us away from the eyes of the public. But that doesn´t and shouldn´t mean having to change to the point where we become a shadow of ourselves. All of this gets better the more rh negative people come into our lives as we have the option to communicate with each others when in need to be understood.
So be easy on yourself. Expect not too much from those you do not know and do not try to save the world.
You can´t. Even though we can all make a huge impact within the communities we choose to be a part of.
4) Rh negative people are born leaders, but terrible followers
A lot of times I have experienced people who are rh negative being full of doubt about themselves, but that is not something that we are born with. It is simply giving in to pressure from people who do not understand us and try to mold us into something they can handle better. If you have someone in your life trying to lead and overpower you, it is better to step back and chance feeling lonely for a while. Once you find your way again, you are likely to attract the right people. So be ready for the change you have always wished to experience and forgotten to fight for whenever things were getting tough and hope to ever be able to break free crumbled. That was then … this is now. So live in the NOW!
And don´t be anybody´s voice but your own.